When Bebe's kids go to college…

For those of you that don’t know, I started grad school this semester. Because I need some $$$ help, I applied for financial aid like most folks do. Well, in grad school there are no GRANTS (read free money) only LOANS. There is also something called a Graduate Assistantship, which is alot like “work study” – monies you get to work a job on campus and the money you make pays your tuition. Even though you probably already know this, my point is that COLLEGE IS NOT FREE.
So in my assistantship gig, I help the adjunct (read part-time) professors with their classes; setting up laptop computers and video projectors, handing out papers, etc. and usually I will answer student technical questions like login passwords and where to find the applications being used, etc. so it doesn’t take time away from the whole class’ discussion/lesson. Well, this week, I had a chance to help a professor throughout a whole class. Usually I have a class during the same time I set them up and leave. Now given this was an undergrad class, and the mentality is much different than graduate level courses, I was amazed at the cavalier attitude of most of those students. The lesson was on HTML web design in Mozilla/Netscape Composer. Now I don’t teach the class, but I do use the same book in a graduate level class I am taking, so you know the week before what you will be studying. These guys were clueless.
I mean we are 2/3 into the semester and some of these guys didn’t even know the group login for the workstations. And mind you this isn’t some huge auditorium type lecture hall, this is a small 12 station computer lab with 10 students in the class. Of those 10, 4 were paying attention doing what the teacher was instructing as she was demonstrating, 1 clearly didn’t know how to do it, but kept talking to other students around her, 1 seemed to already know how to do HTML and were halfway looking paying attention, 2 were all up in facebook.com looking at profiles and answering emails and one girl was totally doing her own thing completely, not even looking at what the professor was doing or on Composer, but steady typing away. I thought wow how times have changed. I never really though discipline was an issue in college classes. I mean high school type discipline “You’re talking too loud…pay attention…classtime is for learning, not eating.” I consider myself pretty lax when it comes to rules and “the establishment” but I also use discretion; if I have to eat in class, it’s a snickers bar or some other quiet snack – not a big ol’ value meal from Burger King, I would take that outside of class after the professor finished explaining the lesson, gossip/chit chat can wait until after class – everybody has cell phones and email, it ain’t THAT important. But what really got me was that most of them didn’t know how to do it. These were CURRENT and FUTURE TEACHERS seeking licensure to teach other folks kids in public schools!!
After class I talked to the professor and she was well aware of who was paying attention and who wasn’t. She explained that it really wasn’t her problem. Students (via tuition) pay her to teach, if they don’t pay attention to get it, or ask questions, that’s on them. Which I totally agreed with. She said some students are failing and don’t even realize it. She said they don’t even try to explain why. Its understandable sometimes you fall behind, so if you get your story right, you can get some extra time to complete an assignment. But some of these kids, well 20 somethings, don’t show up for class, late work, no work, its really saddening. But then again maybe they were the ones that end up with mediocre lives and dead end jobs, in comparison to those that grasp opportunity and excel in life.


3 Comments:
John, I used to work at an university and it is sad how some people don't care about their education. It is their choice.
Your title Be Be kids came off as insulting to me. When I worked and went to college over 7 years ago, I saw a range of folks, white and black, poor and rich, working and unemployed, act a fool when they wanted. I saw the so-called smart kids ignoring the teacher, even cheating.
Mediocore grades does not mean mediocore living. LOL. Shoot, I should not be where I am at with the grades I had in high school let alone me going to college. I came from a dysfunctional home and I could have gone astray.
I don't know John you title just rubbed me the wrong way. Like you are looking down your nose at them that had not so great lives.
I was referring to the comedian Robin Harris' joke about bad children with no home training (these Bebe kids actin up...well where is Bebe?)
The class I was talking to was predominately black, all minority with the exception of 2.
And I don't care where somebody comes from, just act like you have some respect where you are...whether its in class, out with your friends, etc. BTW, I did not speak on anybody's "background" or upbringing, nor did I make any assumptions. I spoke on only what I saw.
In high school I had a 2.6 GPA, and in undergrad college I had a 2.7 GPA, but I always knew to act like I had sense, and respected my professors as a courtesy. If you can't do that, you need to step out and not hinder others that paid their money and actually do want to learn.
As for your taking offense, thats fine, but don't take it personal, I didn't write my blog for you (anybody) or with you (anybody) in mind. I use my blog to express my point of view. It would be very scary if you (anybody) agreed with EVERYTHING I said.
And of course we won't always agree. The point I was making is sometimes we use terms that are offensive. Yes, I remember the Robin Harris skit and the cartoon.
It is not those kids fault they are not trained properly. Yes, they could choose to act better. They cannot help where they came from. I am not trying to defend them.
I just find that we as a people instead of pointing out the negative can shepherd in some positive.
Yes, this is your blog and you can express yourself. But allowing comments I can express myself.
I don't like the term Bebe, ghetto, and so on. We say the whites down us too much when we do too much to ourselves.
That's MY expression for today.
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