Thursday, November 09, 2006

Would you accept a free hug?


I was watching Oprah...okay I can explain. I don't actually WATCH Oprah, Tivo tapes it sometimes and if something controversial comes on - like that "million little pieces" guy or the car giveway I check it out. So anyway this guy was on there from the UK, and he got this idea to make a sign that says "FREE HUGS" and they played a video clip of him on streets holding up the sign...and people walking, running, skateboarding up to him and hugging...men, women, young and old.

I thought for a second. Would I do that? Just walk up to to someone and give them a hug. Hmmmm. Sitting reservedly at my computer right now, I would say no, but I'm pretty sure if I was out and about, I would. I gave a homeless guy $50 once. Looking back I'm glad I did it now, but for a few weeks after I wasn't too thrilled. The guy was near my studio, so every other day or so he would see me coming in and rush up to thank me. It wasn't a cordial shake your hand kinda thing. More like Eddie Murphy in the 80's "AWW LAWD MY BROTHA. I just wanna thank you once again for your great kindness. I just want you to know..." you get the picture. I beleived him, and I was glad I could and did help him, but that did get to be a little much after while.

Back on this hug thing. Now lets pretend I'm on the other side. I can very easily see myself holding a poster up "FREE HUGS" and hugging people BUT, I could hardly see myself doing it for no reason. If it was for a cause - like fund raising or for church or even illustrating a point to a child or something, sure I'd be among the first in line. I guess spreading love is a cause as well, but for me, right now at least, I'm just not that kind of humanitarian yet.

What about you? When was the last time you hugged somebody you didn't know (not in church or a seminar when they say "hug the person next to you"). Have you ever? Pets not included. Nice try though.

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